Published inFamily Matters·Jul 20, 2020Member-onlyTidal HomeschoolingIn a homeschooling environment, learning happens with an ebb and flow. — There are going to be a lot of new homeschooling families this fall. Not just suddenly-schooling-at-home, distance-learning families, but brand-new officially-doing-this-homeschool-thing families. Thousands of people making the same decision my husband and I made way back when our firstborn was a baby. It’s easier now. The support networks are robust…Homeschooling6 min readHomeschooling6 min read
Published inFamily Matters·Mar 18, 2020Member-onlySuddenly homeschooling? Don’t try to make it like school.I just wrote an epic Twitter thread with advice for parents who have suddenly found themselves thrust into homeschooling situations due to COVID-19. I promised to compile it here for easy reference, so here it is! Dear Suddenly & Temporarily Homeschooling Parents: I’m a work-at-home mom of six who has been homeschooling for over 20…Homeschooling7 min readHomeschooling7 min read
Published inThe Writing Cooperative·Nov 29, 2019Member-onlyThe Gates of Mordor and Afternoon Lawn-mowingHow Tolkien’s personal letters have influenced my writing practice — I’m an ink-and-paper addict, and I thought I was already documenting every possible piece of my life in my various notebooks and planners. I keep a detailed daily task list; I write morning pages and poetry; I keep a Lynda Barry-inspired notebook for sketches, quotes, and “Ten Things I Saw…Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
Published inThe Writing Cooperative·Nov 17, 2019Member-onlyHow a Daily Creative Practice Saved My Sanity and Got My Novel FinishedIt took morning pages and poetry prompts to unstick me from a seriously stuck place — Two years ago, I was in trouble. I had breast cancer. I had a book due. I had to move my family from San Diego to Portland. Writing it like that, it sounds pretty dramatic. It felt dramatic at the time! The cancer was an early catch, so (long story…Writing5 min readWriting5 min read
Published inLiterally Literary·Nov 12, 2019Member-onlyAlways Leave Thread in the NeedleA poem for creatives — Always leave thread in the needle and the sentence half-written. The plunge into chill water is the hardest part, so leave the burner on, the hot tap running. Don’t let ink sit in the pen for too long — it clogs the nib. …Poetry2 min readPoetry2 min read
Published inLiterally Literary·May 5, 2019Member-onlyA Mother’s Heart Lives in Her ThroatSomething there is that does love a wall, that sends the gangly boy-limbs clambering up and bids the mother not to fuss or call out words of caution, not to spoil the bliss of racing, arms outspread, along the bricks, along the road that crests the world, the whole huge…Poetry1 min readPoetry1 min read
Apr 24, 2019Member-onlyHow a Kanban-Style Trello Board Made My Novel Revision EasierThis simple, visual three-column system helped me keep track of all the edits I needed to make, big and small. — A few days ago, I turned in the revision of my latest middle-grade novel. My awesome editor at Knopf had given me notes on a few things she wanted me to focus on in this pass—fleshing out a couple of characters or relationships; deepening a primary theme; adding more setting…Productivity3 min readProductivity3 min read
Published inFamily Matters·Apr 23, 2019KonMari for the Homeschooling ParentLet’s face it, you’re never going to melt down all those broken crayons to reuse in Pinterest projects. — 1. This is going to be terrible, so start with something easy. Let’s say: board games. Collect all the boxes from the playroom shelf and put them in the middle of the floor. Go through each box. Have an old Tupperware container handy; you’ll need something to hold the stray buttons…Konmari7 min readKonmari7 min read
Apr 3, 2019Member-onlyDigital Decluttering: A DiaryIt took me a year of baby steps, but my phone works for me now. — Something unprecedented happened to me yesterday. I didn’t even think about opening Facebook until 12:35pm. Or Twitter. Like so many others, I read Cal Newport’s Digital Minimalism recently and it has dramatically changed the way I use the internet. But my shift toward a more intentional use of my phone…Productivity10 min readProductivity10 min read